Military Transition

Don’t make the transition to civilian life on your own. I’ll show you how to find purpose, overcome trauma and deal with the unknown.

Ready to take your life back?

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Phil Ayles, DD MPA

Heart of Gold

“Phil has a heart of gold and sees potential in everyone around him. He has overcome many challenges in his military career which sets him up to be the perfect coach and mentor for others transitioning out of the military to the civilian side.”

Full Spectrum

“Phil has a joy-filled personality. He sees the big picture and wants the best for everyone and every situation. Contact Phil if you need someone with a perspective that encompasses a range of human experiences.”

Above and Beyond

“Phil goes above and beyond to help others find their inner selves and achieve their goals. I've known Phil for years. He coached me through my divorce and child custody and I'm now happily remarried and know my path in life.”

You have everything to gain.

The longer you wait, the harder it gets. Here's what you can gain by working with Phil.

Find your mission purpose and identity.

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Learn to overcome trauma.

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Navigate the challenges of an unstructured world.

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Gain happiness and belonging.

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Deepen and heal relationships with loved ones.

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Overcome the obstacles to your success.

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About Phil Ayles

Phil Ayles

Philip Ayles is the founder of Ayles Solutions LLC, a retired U.S. Army combat veteran, speaker, and wedding celebrant and officiant based in Jacksonville, Florida.

His 24 years of military service included roles in law enforcement, civil affairs, and intelligence, and he holds a master’s degree in public administration. His own journey from military life to finding renewed purpose, love, and belonging shapes the work he does today.

Through speaking, workshops, and individual coaching, Philip helps people develop self-awareness, strengthen communication, and build meaningful relationships.

As a wedding officiant, he creates personalized ceremonies that honor each couple’s story, values, and vision.

Whether addressing an audience or celebrating a marriage, Philip brings a calm presence, lived experience, and a heartfelt commitment to helping people connect.

Try a free 30 minute consult.

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Packages and Pricing

Military Transition Package

$800 now only $500

Overcome trauma, lack of structure and grab the reins to your own destiny. In this program I teach you how to achieve your own success and overcome any obstacles you’re facing as a result of transitioning out of the military.

First Responder Package

$300 now only $250

Learn to step out of constant fight or flight mode and find peace. Learn to be more effective at work and at home. You can’t miss this opportunity.

1 on 1 Session

$200 per session

Get in touch with Phil for a one hour consult. This is a great place to start if you’re not sure what you need to tackle.

We don't just work with military.

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First Responders

Feel like you can't ever relax? Learn to step out of the constant fight or flight and find balance.

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Law Enforcement

Need help getting past a traumatic situation? Looking to develop more balance and emotional intelligence? Phil can help.

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Active Military

Phil has your back. With over 24 years of experience he understands the complexities and challenges of active duty.

Wedding Officiation

Your love story deserves more than a standard ceremony.

Rev. Philip Ayles creates warm, personalized wedding ceremonies that reflect your relationship, values, personality, and vision for your day. Whether your celebration is Christian, spiritual, nonreligious, or a meaningful blend, Philip will help you create a ceremony that feels authentic, heartfelt, and completely yours.

With a calm presence, professional guidance, and genuine care, he makes the ceremony-planning process simple—so you can remain present and enjoy the moment you say, “I do.”

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Not sure which plan is right for you?

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